My wife and I have not been having sex very often lately, and I don’t know what the true cause of our problems are. She has lately claimed that I am ruining our marriage because I do not go to bed at the same timea s her. That is only true some of the time, and it is not like when I do go to bed at the same time as her, that we are going to have sex. Anyway, I want to check out sex toys and try to get some ideas for some toys that I could buy to make our sex life better and hopefully we can start having sex again on a regular basis with some help from some toys.
I think for awhile we were kind of treating sex like an obligation, or a chore, something that had to get done, and neither of us seemed to derive much satisfaction from it even though we were going through the motions. We did that for years, or so it seemed, and then we stopped doing it so much. It became more and more infrequent, until it got to the point where it is now, which is that we hardly have sex at all. I really want to change that though, because I miss the way that our sex life used to be when we were much younger.
We used to go at each other like animals and sometimes we’d do it 3 times in a row. It used to be so amazing that I just don’t know what happened and why things are the way they are now. But I still have a lot of faith that things can change and that they can change for the better at that. So I hope I am right about that.